About Ellie

About Me - Ellie Wilde

I’m Ellie Wilde — not the name I was born with, but the one that finally feels like me. I use a fictitious name not to hide — but to protect my peace, and more importantly, my kids.

I write like I talk: no filters, no fluff, and no patience for bullshit — you know, the shit most people avoid. I share the cracks, the breakdowns, the bleeding soul moments, the fuck-it’s, the meltdowns, and the aftermath where you choose to change or continue to evaporate. I write about the dark, shadowy places — from the inside out.

I’ve walked through flames of hell with a smile plastered on my face until I couldn’t pretend anymore. The gloves came off, I burned the rulebooks, and I started asking, “Make it make sense.”

This isn’t a blog with soft quotes and pretty bow-wrapped lessons. This is a raw trek through dark shadows, resilience, rage, stubborn hope, and pruning the dead and ugly off. If you’ve ever wanted to scream “what the actual fuck” at the world and still believed there’s something worth saving, you’re in the right place.

Gritty Candor is my open book. The treacherous trek. The gospel I’ve lived and bled for. This is where we stop pretending and start telling the truth — no matter how loud, ugly, or truthbound it may be.